Birthday Giveaway (over $1,300!) & 51 Things I’ve Learned

Hi friend! I hope you are doing awesome! It’s a fun week here because yesterday was Jordan’s 10th birthday and tomorrow is my 51st birthday!

We’ll be going to dinner with my family to celebrate and to celebrate with you, I wanted to do a giveaway!

Birthday Giveaway (over $1,300 value!)

I’m giving away everything you see here, including the chic weekender bag!

Weekender Bag • Backpack • hanni Body Oil • hanni moisturizing body wash • Salt & Stone Body Wash • Bergamot Body & Hair Mist • Santal Body & Hair Mist • DedCool Detergent • DedCool Room & Linen Spray • EBY Thong • EBY Brief • De-puff Eye Patches • Brightening Eye Patches • Calming Patches • Un-wrinkle Patches • kulfi Mascara • Lip Oil Stain in Guava • Lip Oil Stain in Rose • Vitamin C SPF • Barrier Glow Serum • Lip Stain Marker • Blush & Lip Stick • Brainstorm & Nightcap Chocolate Duo • Laura Mercier Lippie • Laura Mercier Blush • Rejuvinique Hair Oil • Body Butter | (retail value of $1,335)

The easiest way for me to pick a winner is via Instagram, so head over and enter to win the giveaway on THIS POST!

I’ll announce the winner next Friday!

51 Things I’ve Learned

Having a birthday always puts me in a reflective mood, so I wanted to also share 51 things I’ve learned so far.

51 Things I’ve Learned at 51

1. Few things are better than the first sip of coffee in the morning.
2. Morning quiet time is a non-negotiable.
3. Journaling helps me process my emotions and provides a creative outlet.
4. People, then experiences, then money, then things.
5. Financial peace creates life freedom.
6. Less clutter equals more calm.
7. Organization reduces stress.
8. Most worry isn’t beneficial.
9. Laughter is good for the soul.
10. Fresh air helps almost everything.
11. True friends are gold.
12. Fresh flowers bring smiles.
13. Healing yourself changes the kind of love you accept.
14. Real love feels calm, not chaotic.
15. Emotional safety is everything.
16. The right relationship brings peace, not confusion.
17. A good partner makes life lighter.
18. Communication creates safety, and intimacy deepens connection.
19. It’s possible to build something beautiful after heartbreak.
20. Everyday is an opportunity to start fresh.
21. Action precedes motivation.
22. Strength training is fountain of youth.
23. Muscles keep you vibrant and strong and able to get up off of the floor.
24. Good sleep makes everything better.
25. Preparation makes healthy choices easier.
26. Walking (especially outside) solves more problems than scrolling.
27. Confidence comes from keeping promises to yourself.
28. Small habits create big changes.
29. Discipline feels hard in the moment, regret lasts longer.
30. Your body responds when you take care of it.
31. Health is easier to maintain than rebuild.
32. Water and fiber matter more than we think.
33. Movement improves mood.
34. Progress is rarely linear.
35. Growth feels uncomfortable at first.
36. Comparison steals joy.
37. Saying no is often an act of self-respect.
38. Boundaries protect relationships.
39. Kids don’t need perfection, they need presence.
40. Being a parents is like living with your heart outside your chest.
41. A quiet house is better than a wild Friday night.
42. Mad Men is the best show.
43. Sex and the City is a close runner up.
44. Everyone should have a comfy pair of pajamas to slip into at the end of the day.
45. Love should feel like partnership.
46. Forgiveness frees you more than the other person.
47. Gratitude shifts perspective.
48. Sometimes you have to hustle to go slow.
49. Aging is a privilege denied to many.
50. The best years aren’t behind us.
51. There is still so much to look forward to.

I don’t have everything figured out, but I know what matters. I know what kind of life I want to build. I know what kind of love I want to nurture. I’m thankful to have a partner that loves and accepts me unconditionally and lets me know I’m valued.

Age 50 was the year I prioritized health, age 51 is all about family. I’m so excited to get to marry my best friend this year and blend our families together. I’m honored that I get to be Elliott’s wife and that my kids will get to grow up with his influence.

I hope you have the best day friend! Thank you for being here!